New adventures are often difficult, especially in the middle. In the middle of things the motivation is often forgotten and the goal(s) are hard to remember. The daily grind grows like a weed and every day becomes, well, everyday. Adventures, we forget, also include the every day living of life: we wake up, we work, we eat, and we sleep.
But when we are planning the adventures of our lives we are often caught up in the possibilities; as was mentioned earlier: dreams that come true are no longer dreams. In the middle of it all, though, we need to remember that the adventures and dreams in our lives are always worth it, even in the middle bits.
I was once asked why I bother with handmade and with self grown when there were so many more efficient ways to do those very same things. Other than liking it, I had a hard time answering. The answer came suddenly a few weeks later: because dreams and adventures are not efficient. My answer, however, at the time: “If I have to explain it, you would not understand it.”
And so in the middle bits we often find ourselves wanting a bit more efficiency, a bit more speed and always more time. But dreams and adventures are actually built (slowly) in the middle, where all the work happens. We spend much of our time trying to speed up rather than slow down and in doing so we miss the one thing many of us search for but call it by the incorrect name. We are actually searching for the middle bits.